Historical partnership and values account — October 11, 2026. The August 2025 story describes a potential partnership the author valued at $3–5M over two years. The article does not establish whether this was a binding offer, forecast, contingent revenue or personal proceeds; exact terms need the author’s records. It should not be read as cash paid and returned. The original company/lender arrangements, bonus-show and release invitations are historical. Feeling drained can prompt investigation, but is not proof that a business is wrong or that AI will remove every unwanted task. Current work is on About.
Published August 15th, 2025 • 25 minutes
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I declined a partnership I described as potentially worth $3–5 million. The actual terms and whether that meant an offer, forecast, revenue or personal proceeds are not supplied here.
Partnership came in last week. Legitimate opportunity. Two years of 'some grinding and minimum work' for life-changing money.
My spreadsheet said yes. My gut said absolutely not.
For the first time in my founder journey, I listened to my gut.
Here's why that was the smartest business decision I've ever made.
Everyone's Wrong About "Grit"
- Y Combinator: 'Do things that don't scale.'
- VCs: 'Grow at all costs.'
- LinkedIn influencers: 'Hustle through the resistance.'
Bullshit.
If something consistently feels like work - if you're dreading it, delaying it, making excuses - that's not resistance to push through.
That may be a signal to investigate fit, workload and constraints. It is not proof that the opportunity is wrong.
I've been building since 2019. Multiple companies. Supposedly know what I'm doing.
But every time I followed 'smart business advice' that felt wrong, it ended badly.
Every time I trusted my gut over my business plan, it worked out.
The $15K Google Ads Story
Our major lending partnership was on the line. They wanted traction. Volume. Results.
Solution was obvious: spend $15K on Google ads, drive conversions, keep them happy.
Every advisor said do it. Every framework said it made sense.
For weeks, I kept thinking 'I'll decide tomorrow.' Then 'I'll decide next week.'
When you're delaying a decision for weeks, you've already made it. You just don't want to admit it.
I never ran those ads. Lost the partnership. Best decision I ever made.
Because here's the thing: I've never spent money on ads in 6 years of building companies.
Not because I'm cheap. Because it goes against everything I believe about building.
I build products people want to talk about. I don't buy their attention.
The Payday Loan Test
Company calls me up. 'We'll pay you 30% of every loan amount.'
That's serious money in lending. Could have made bank.
My immediate reaction: 'Absolutely not.'
Didn't even think about it. Just knew.
Because high-interest loans felt wrong. Doesn't matter how much they pay.
At SimpleDirect, from Day 1, till now, we rank lenders by what's best for customers, not what pays us most. We've never compromised on this. Not once.
The moment you optimize for your revenue over customer outcomes, you're building the wrong business.
The Silicon Valley Myth
- 'You need to move to San Francisco.'
- That's where real founders are.'
- 'That's where the money is.'
Moving felt like playing someone else's game.
Toronto felt like home.
Staying in Toronto gives me:
- Lower costs, higher quality of life
- Access to Canadian grants and programs
- Different perspective from the echo chamber
- Ability to build authentically
Plus, geographic arbitrage isn't just financial. It's psychological.
Building where you want to be vs. where you think you should be changes everything.
The Sunday Night Test
Here's my business metric that beats revenue:
How do you feel Sunday night?
Dreading Monday can be a reason to review workload and fit; it is not evidence by itself that the business is broken.
Energy levels don't lie.
I can build AI tools for 12 hours straight and feel energized.
Put me in a partnership negotiation for 2 hours and I'm completely drained.
That's not laziness. That's data.
Your energy tells you where your natural strengths are. And in an AI world, your natural strengths are your only sustainable advantage.
Why AI Changes Everything
I hoped AI could reduce some repetitive work that drained me. That was an expectation to test, not a guarantee that unwanted work or its responsibilities would disappear.
Some repetitive tasks may be candidates for automation. This account does not establish that AI can remove every draining task or its review and recovery costs.
The only work left will require human creativity, passion, intuition.
Which means if you're not naturally drawn to what you're building, you're screwed.
Some builders may use similar AI tools. Access, permissions, expertise and delivery obligations differ; shared tools do not establish equivalent software or outcomes.
The only differentiation left is you.
Your unique perspective. Your authentic voice. Your natural obsessions.
If you're grinding against your nature, you'll get out-hustled by someone for whom that same work feels like play.
Building vs. Business Development
I love building SimpleDirect features. Solving technical problems. Creating AI tools.
I hate traditional business development. Partnership calls. Networking events.
This taught me something crucial:
I'm a builder, not a dealmaker.
So I structure everything around building. I hire people who love the relationship side.
I focus on what energizes me. They focus on what energizes them.
We're not the same. And that's the point.
The Framework
Four questions I ask myself:
Does this energize or drain me?
Am I delaying this decision because I don't want to face it?
How do I feel about Monday morning?
Is this who I actually am, or who I think I should be?
If any of these feel off, that's your alarm system.
Listen to it.
What This Isn't
I'm not saying follow every whim.
I'm not saying avoid hard work.
I'm not saying ignore market feedback.
I'm saying: distinguish between temporary discomfort (normal) and persistent misalignment (warning signal).
When something feels like grinding against your nature for months, that's not grit. That's stupidity.
The Compounding Effect
When work doesn't feel like work, you can sustain it for years.
You wake up excited about problems instead of dreading solutions.
You make better decisions because you're energized, not depleted.
You create authentic differentiation because passion is impossible to fake.
This compounds. Someone grinding against their nature will burn out. Someone working with their nature will compound.
Guess who wins long-term?
The Controversial Truth
Sometimes the best business advice is to ignore business advice.
Your heart knows before your head does.
I've left millions on the table by following my gut instead of conventional wisdom.
And I'd do it again tomorrow.
Because building the wrong thing successfully is still building the wrong thing.
Why This Matters Now
I expected shared tools to change some building workflows, while actual access and capability would still differ.
The same AI models. The same development frameworks. The same growth tactics.
Authenticity becomes the only lasting competitive advantage.
If you're not building from your natural strengths, someone else will out-execute you from theirs.
The Bottom Line
Work shouldn't feel like work.
If it does, you're either doing the wrong work, or doing the right work wrong.
Trust your instincts. They're smarter than your business plan.
Your reaction is one input. Check it alongside actual terms, customer evidence, constraints and the consequences of declining.
In an AI-first world, that alignment is everything.
What do you think of declining a potentially valuable partnership when the fit is uncertain?
The weekend-bonus-show invitation was part of the historical release period, not a current promise to publish a reader’s response.
The Monday, Wednesday and Friday schedule at 9am EST was my announcement at publication, not a current release-cadence guarantee.
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